Hi. In today’s post, we’re going to talk about three secrets that women wish they could tell you about, when they’re wearing short skirts.
The first thing to understand about women that are wearing short skirts, is they’re not doing it because they are asking for sex, which is something that I think a lot of people in the media try and promote and try to say, and unfortunately a lot of guys also think.
They’re not doing it because they’re feeling slutty that night, or because they want to go out and act like a bad girl. That’s not the reason that most girls are wearing a short skirt. I would argue that the main reason that a girl wears a short skirt is because she wants to feel good about herself.
Yes, part of that is going to be because she would like some male attention. That doesn’t necessarily mean she wants the bad kind.
It’s not like they’re saying, “Hey, I’m here and I’m available for anyone that wants me.” It’s more that they’re saying, “Hey, I feel comfortable with myself, and I want to go out there and I’d like to get some compliments, and I’d like people to look at me, but I’m not necessarily saying that because of that, it means that I want to have sex with absolutely every guy that I meet.”
Now don’t get me wrong, there is something called the 80/20 rule. What I’m saying here doesn’t apply to absolutely every girl who is wearing a short skirt, but I would argue this is probably the majority.
There are probably still some that are wearing it because they do want male attention and are looking for a hookup, but the majority, I would argue, probably don’t.
I think this is something that women would love to go out there and shout about when they’re wearing short skirts, and yet it’s something that, isn’t really okay.
They can’t really go up to every single guy they see and say, “Hey, just so you know, I’m wearing this short skirt because I’d like to feel good about myself, not because I want to sleep with you.”
It becomes one of those things they kind of keep quiet and keep to themselves.
Secret number two, about a girl wearing a short skirt. Yes, she probably wants to get noticed for wearing it, but she doesn’t want to be noticed because of it.
What’s the difference between these two things? It’s really simple. She wants you to look at the entire package, not just the short skirt.
As part of her outfit, that short skirt works, but she’s also put time into thinking about her shoes, and her makeup, and everything else that she’s wearing. It’s not just the short skirt.
If you make the mistake of giving her a compliment specifically about that short skirt, maybe even using it as an opening line, then your chance of success is going to be severely diminished.
As I said that last time, I’m aware there’s going to be a whole bunch of haters and they’re going to say things like, “No, that’s not true. If you comment on a girl wearing a short skirt, she’s totally going to want you.”
I’m going to argue, yeah, there are going to be some that are totally going to be okay with it. That doesn’t mean that is the line they wish you would used, it just typically means that that girl was already attracted to you.
She was probably already giving you the signs of attraction, that she wanted you to approach. Therefor, because she’s already attracted to you, she’s going to give you a concession, and if you compliment her on her short skirt, because she likes you, she’s going to take it as a compliment, and she’s going to be really nice to you.
That doesn’t mean that something else wouldn’t have worked just as easily. In general, if you notice a girl is wearing a short skirt, and you’re looking for a line to start talking to her, then realistically I wouldn’t even make the short skirt part of the line.
Instead, I would make sure I was commenting on the overall picture, or using something completely different. She knows, and I know, that she’s wearing a short skirt, and she looks good. I don’t need to bring it up as my reason to talk to her. There are lots of other reasons that I could be using.
Now for the third secret, you want to be a little bit observant about what’s going on.
Look at her. Is she comfortable wearing a short skirt? One of the things that I always look for, is to see if she’s trying to increase the coverage.
If you see a girl that’s wearing a short skirt, but she’s constantly trying to pull it down, and make sure it’s covering more area, then that girl’s biggest secret is the fact that she doesn’t feel that comfortable wearing it.
She’s a little bit self conscious, and she probably wishes that she’d worn something else. In these scenarios, it’s even more important that you take the time to actually get to know her as a person.
One of my friends used to have the most amazing line, and I really enjoy this one, and I’m not typically one for lines, but I think this one’s great. In this particular post, it fits perfectly.
The concept is, when you’re talking to a girl, you want to make it clear that you’re holding eye contact, that you really do care about her. At the same time, you don’t want to get stuck at the friend zone and not do any kind of sexual escalation whatsoever.
The line is this, “A lot of guys are going to look at your breasts, and your butt, while telling you how beautiful your eyes are. I’m not that kind of guy. I’m going to look squarely in your eyes while telling you, you have a great ass.”
What I love about that line, as it shows that you are taking the time to recognize her as a person, you’re locking eye contact with her, and making her feel like an actual human being, and not just random body parts that she has.
While at the same time, you’re showing sexual intent, and giving her a physical compliment. I find that this creates that perfect balance between being sexual, while also being respectful.
When it comes down to talking to a girl who’s wearing a short skirt, the biggest secret that she has, is that she wishes that you would know who she is as an actual person, and think of the short skirt as an accessory to who she is, not as an advertisement explaining that all she is, is that skirt.
If you can find that balance, and portray it correctly to her, then your attractiveness is going to go through the roof.
A lot of people think the female brain is complicated. Personally, I don’t think it’s that crazy. In fact, I’ve spent a lot of time trying to understand exactly what goes on in the female mind. If you can knock down your ego enough, to actually think about how it feel to be a woman, then it can make it incredibly easy to understand what they want, and how to generate attraction.
There are two elements in talking to a girl.
- One of them is making sure you come across like somebody that she can trust herself with.
- The other one is making sure you come across as a male, sexual, attractive creature, that she can lust after.
Now, I’ve actually got a video that I’m going to give a link to, that does reveal a strange psychological loophole in the female mind that can literally be used to get almost any girl to want to date you within just seven days.
If you’re interested in learning more about how that psychological technique works, then all you have to do is click on the link, and you can go through and watch that video that explains to you exactly how that weird quirk of the female mind works.