Hi. Today we’re going to talk about 3 simple tips you can use to get a date with a girl via Instagram.
Do you want to know if getting a girl’s Instagram is as good as getting her phone number?
First rule of Instagram, following somebody on Instagram is nowhere near as good as getting them to follow you. If you’re not getting a girl’s contact details, but you’re getting her Instagram, then you’re really not doing yourself any favors.
On the contrary, if she’s getting your Instagram, then that can be as good as getting a phone number in some ways because it does of course show that she’s interested in you. If you’re really good at photographs, then you can use that to generate a lot of attraction.
If a girl is fobbing you off by giving you her Instagram, then don’t worry about it but just make sure that she adds you as well. The easiest way to do this is to hand her your phone or to take her phone and add yourself via her Instagram.
Point is being that once you’re following her, and she’s following you, then it may not be as good as phone number, but it is definitely a way that you can keep in touch with somebody, and you can use that to build attraction.
Going through someone’s Instagram feed and just clicking like and commenting and saying how hot they look or how great their pictures are isn’t going to do you any favors. You need something that is going to help is generating a conversation with somebody. The easiest way to do that is to ask them questions.
Find out where they took pictures or find out what inspired them to take a certain picture or ask about some obscure details in the background. The point being, if you can generate a conversation with them via Instagram, so the 2 of you are talking backwards and forwards on each other’s photographs, then you’ve got a chance of actually making something happen.
Now finally, and this is the hard part, the whole point of any kind of communication whether it’s via phone, via Instagram, via Tinder, via Twitter, it doesn’t matter because you’ve got to meet up with the person. Your entire goal of communicating via social media should be to meet up with them in person.
The easiest way to do that, if you haven’t got a lot of dialogue going thick and fast that then moves into private messaging, is going to be to lean towards a group event. Now what’s great about social media is you learn about the kind of things the other person is interested in. If they’re interested in a charity event, or if they’re interested in modeling, or if they’re interested in traveling or whatever it is that they’re interested in doing, you can then set up, organize or invite them to some kind of group event that is something they would be interested in.
If you don’t have too much attraction with them, then an easy way of getting them to come out with you is to invite them to bring their friends. Sure, it may not be a perfect first date, but it is a chance for you to meet them in person, connect with them again and maybe get their personal contact details so in the future, you can set up some kind of date.
You’re going to have a much better chance of bringing them out to something like that if they can bring their friends along, so they don’t feel it’s weird meeting a stranger on the internet. Now another thing you can do is if you find that they’re going to a really big event like a local music festival or some kind of show, then you could go along and see that show with them and while you’re there, message them via Instagram and see if they want to meet up for a quick drink.
However, this can also come across as incredibly creepy, if you do it wrong. The event needs to be absolutely huge, and you genuinely need to be going to that event without them. Maybe get a whole bunch of your friends and go along with them, post some pictures of the event, let them post some pictures of the event.
Then it be like, oh my gosh, we’re both at the same event. We should at least come and say “Hi”. If you do it like that, then you’ve got a chance of meeting up with them without it coming across as too creepy. If, on the other hand, she Instagrams a picture of herself at her local diner, and you just turn up there and say, hello. That’s not okay. That’s very weird and strange and not the way you should be using Instagram to meet somebody.
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