Have you ever seen somebody just walk up to someone in a bar and start making out with them?
Maybe you’ve seen it on a YouTube video or maybe the experience has happened to you.
If you don’t know how to make that happen, or you think it’s just luck or just a fluke, then this is a video you are going to watch.
Today, we’re going to break down the elements that make up an instant make out with a stranger.
My name’s Adam Lyons and I’m from The Tao of Badass.
The trick to getting an instant make out isn’t actually about going up to random girls and trying to make out with as many people as possible.
It’s about knowing what signs to look for for the kind of girl who’d be down for an instant make out.
Most of the time, the decision to make out with somebody has usually happened before they even turn up at the club.
It will be when the girl is hanging out with her friends, they’re putting their make up on, trying on their dresses and what have you, and they’ll be like “Wow, I really feel like making out with someone who’s cute tonight.”
Or, “I really feel crazy, so I want to do something wild.”
The decision has already been made before they get to the bar.
What that means is your goal to get an instant make out isn’t so much about making sure you’ve got perfect make out technique or that you know the best way to get some random girl to make out with you, it’s actually about the ability to spot a girl who’s already made the decision that she wants to make out.
The very first tip that I’m going to give you is to look for the girl that is 2:00 drunk at 11:00 PM.
What I mean by this is you want to look for a girl that’s acting like she typically acts at the very end of the night, but a lot earlier in the night.
Anyone who’s acting drunk a lot more than any of their friends are, i.e. they’re dancing bit wilder, they’re the one that’s sort of screaming “woop woop” before everybody else.
The one who’s acting more drunk than the others, assuming they’re all drinking the same drink, if they’re acting a little bit more drunk, it’s not because they are more drunk, because obviously they’ve been drinking the same as their friends, it’s usually because they’re trying got pretend like they’re more drunk so that they can justify any crazy behaviors later on.
If you want the instant make out, then you’re looking for the girl who’s acting a little bit more wild and a little bit more crazy than the rest.
By acting more drunk, by the way, just to be a little bit more specific, I’m not talking about the girl that’s sort of like “Where am I?” Out of it drunk.
That’s not the kind of drunk we’re looking for. We’re looking for the fun, party girl kind of drunk.
Remember, this isn’t actual drunkenness we’re looking at.
We’re looking at somebody who’s acting drunk.
Somebody’s who’s doing the wild, crazy behaviors but you can tell by looking at them that they’re fully conscious of what they’re doing.
This is somebody who is just looking to justify their actions.
Once you’ve spotted those girls, and there will be a few of them in the bar, the next thing you want to try and do is lock eye contact.
Typically I’ll watch them, and I’ll be smiling and I’ll look away in order to drink, look back and smile.
I’m waiting until their eyes meet mine. The minute their eyes meet, I do a big smile. I look to see if it’s mirrored. If the person smiles back at me, then I’ve got compliance.
Compliance is the first step to knowing that I’m somebody that she might want to make out with.
If she didn’t like me, then when I look at her and smile, she’s just going to look away with a confused look or sort of laugh with her friends.
If she looks at me and smiles, then I know I’ve got a good chance. This is the bit that actually takes huge kahonas.
What you want to do, is the minute you’ve got eye contact and smiling, you walk straight up to her.
Literally straight, in a straight line, you go straight up to her, and you probably use some kind of compliment line or statement of interest.
Compliment being something like “Hey, I saw you across the room and you’ve got this beautiful smile, I just had to come and say hi.”
A statement of interest, and you can always combine the two, but a statement of interest like “Wow, I saw you across the room and you look incredibly stunning and I just knew that I had to walk over to you.”
A statement of interest is not just a generic compliment about something they’re doing, i.e. smiling, but it’s where I like you.
You’ve got a good look. I’m attracted to you. I want to come over and say hi. Either way, it’s very important to rapidly escalate.
Usually the easiest way to do it is to reach your hand up for a high five, and then when they go for the high five, actually lock hands.
If you start to bend your fingers over and they don’t reject and pull their hand away, they comply, once again giving you more compliance, then you know they’re probably down for it.
At this point maintain eye contact, smile, and I’d repeat with more statements of interest. “Wow, you’re really attractive,” or, “Wow, you’re kind of taking my breath away right now.” Or, “Man, I got this feeling that I don’t normally get when I meet a stranger, this is crazy.”
You want to speak very calm very slow, lock eye contact.
If she’s maintaining eye contact, smiling, and moving her body towards you so you can feel her actually moving into some kind of an embrace, then you know this girl’s down for a make out.
The easiest way to make out is just slowly tilt your head while maintaining eye contact.
You want to do a thing called triangular gazing.
Triangular gazing is where you take your eyes, and you look at each eye and her mouth.
You’d be like left eye, right eye, mouth, left eye, right eye, mouth, or left eye, mouth, right eye, doesn’t matter the order.
You’re going to switch between all of them.
Most human beings do this before a kiss, and she will subconsciously be aware that this is going on.
This will typically be reciprocated by her doing the same thing again, which is more compliance and when you notice her looking from one eye to another eye to your mouth after you do it, you know this girl’s down for a make out.
You move straight in, and you go for the kiss.
Getting an instant make out is one of the easiest things to do, providing you know what you look for.
Now, of course, you’re not going to do this every single night you go out, but once you know what you’re looking for, it’s a lot easier to make it happen.
I think saying that it could happen once, twice, three times a week, if you’re going out often enough, isn’t an exaggeration.
Now, getting a make out is all well and good, but ultimately, if you’re watching this video, then you’re probably much more interested in learning how to develop a relationship and probably how to have sex.
There’s one incredible trick that I use where I whisper a specific sequence of words into a girl’s ear, and it gets them ridiculously aroused and ready for sex.
Coming up soon, I am going to be giving a seminar where I’m going to take you through exactly what I whisper into a girl’s ear to get them turned on and aroused and thinking of me as a sexual partner.
I know for a fact that this is the kind of thing that’s going to do drastic things to improve your success with the opposite sex. But, I can’t let just everybody sign up for this seminar.
We’ve got limited spots because I want to be able to communicate with the people that signed up for it, so I can actually answer any questions they get.
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