In this post, we’re going to talk about 2 fun things you should do every single week in order to keep your girlfriend attracted to you.
Before that, let’s get into today’s fun fact.
The question is, which of the sexes takes breakups the hardest?
As always, we’ll have the answer for you at the end of the article.
There are 2 things that can drastically increase your chance of keeping your girlfriend attracted to you. They’re both incredibly fun and both of them are something that you’re going to enjoy doing and really will make a huge difference.
#1 The first thing is ensure you go on an active date with your girlfriend every single week. That seems like a really easy thing to do at the beginning of a relationship, but once you’ve been dating a girl for 6 months, a year, 18 months, I don’t know, 5 years, suddenly going on a date every single week seems like a really hard thing to do.
I want you to remember that I said an active date. That means movies, dinner, eating, do not count. I would consider those passive dates.
An active date is when you’re actually doing something that involves interaction with each other. It could be something as simple as going to play mini golf or going to play laser tag or bowling or even walking around the local zoo, taking a camera and taking pictures of each other. It does need to do something where you actively participate and interact with each other, not just sitting there passively, holding down a typical conversation over a meal or of course, watching a movie in the dark.
These things can get really inventive, especially if you like socializing with your other significant partner. What you can do is you can start organizing social gatherings so you get a group of people to all go bowling or a group of people to all go and take part in some kind of whitewater rafting activity or canoeing or rock climbing or whatever it is.
The point is, by having a regular event that you go to, it will give you things to talk about. It will make sure you’re actually interacting with each other and it will remind you why you like each other. A lot of people put that kind of energy in at the beginning of a relationship and they forget about it towards the end.
#2 Tip number 2 is incredibly sneaky and a life hack for dating relationships. You need to listen very carefully. Make sure that every single week you massage your girlfriend. Yeah, I know, this seems like a silly thing. You’re like, “Yeah, whatever, I massage my girlfriend every single time before I want things to get a little bit freaky with her.”
No, that’s not the point. You’re not doing the massage for things to get freaky. You’re doing the massage freely. You’re giving her a serious massage, something that takes an actual hour where you get oils and lotions and that kind of stuff to truly make her feel special.
The reason you’re doing this is, one, to show how much care and attention you are willing to give her, but too, it’s so that when she weighs up how awesome her boyfriend is compared to all of the other boyfriends out there in the world that her girlfriends are dating, she’s going to realize that none of those girls are being given a 1-hour massage every single week with no expectation of sex or anything off the back of it.
By you doing that, she’s going to realize what a catch you are on top of all the other awesome things you’re doing every week, like taking her out on dates and stuff like that.
She’s going to want to make sure she does everything she can to keep you, which may involve you also getting a 1-hour massage, which is great. It might involve a whole bunch of other things as well, in terms of her taking the time to take you out on dates and making sure she does whatever she can to make you feel incredibly special.
The point is, when you take an hour and you devote that one hour every week to your girlfriend, to make her feel special, it will not go amiss and it will make a huge difference in your relationship and that’s how to keep your girlfriend attracted to you.
If I’m saying this, and I can already hear the internet haters somewhere out there being like, “Yeah, whatever. That’s too much time and attention to give in to a girl. If she likes me, she should just like me.” Bear this in mind. If you’re dating the kind of person that when you put an hour of time into making them feel special, that it isn’t reciprocated and they don’t feel the need to do so much more for you in return, then you’re probably not dating the right person in the first place. You should move on and find someone who truly does care for you and appreciates all the wonderful things that you’re doing for them.
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Before we go, we do of course have the answer to that fun fact for you.
It turns out that men take breakups way harder than women, well, at least the men in their 20’s. It turns out that a study was done recently looking at men and women in their 20’s and how they handle breakups. It turns out that men take it a lot harder and it takes a lot longer for them to recover. This is due most in fact to the fact that women have much larger social networks on Facebook, where they get a lot of positive reinforcement and a lot of other opportunities to date people, whereas men have much smaller social networks and that of course makes it a lot harder for them to move on and meet somebody else.
Of course, if you want a really easy way to get over a breakup, then all you have to do is read the article that I put out yesterday and I’ll teach you a really simple way to get over a breakup in literally 2 hours or less. As always, don’t forget to click subscribe so you don’t miss out on any of the other articles, and I’ll see you.