In today’s post, we’re going to talk about the best way to get a girl’s phone number.
Getting a girl’s phone number, I love this one because you see people on YouTube do it all the time where they’re like, “You don’t even have to say a word, you can just walk up to a girl and get her phone number” or “You can get a girl’s phone number just by asking for it and sticking your phone in their face.”
Sure, there’s a lot of different ways of getting someone’s phone number. My question to you is this, what good is a phone number if the girl isn’t going to pick up the phone when you phone her?
If she’s just giving out her phone number left, right and center, it doesn’t necessarily mean that she actually wants to talk to you.
Sometimes she’s just caught up in the heat of the moment. Sometimes she just thinks it could be a fun thing to do. Sometimes she’s doing it just to get rid of you.
The real key to actually getting a girl’s phone number is making sure that she wants to pick up the phone when you phone her or when you text her. The ability to do that is the real art of seducing or attracting somebody.
A girl is only going to pick up the phone or text you back a reply if she has genuine interest in staying in touch with you, which means you need a real connection, a real thing to connect on.
The focus of an interaction when you meet a girl shouldn’t be about getting the phone number, it should actually be about doing something together. The phone number therefore just becomes part of the package.
For example, if you’re talking to a girl and while talking to her you start talking about some great ice cream place that she should try out sometime and she’s like, “Oh my God, I love ice cream. I’m a big fan of it.”
If you can get her to agree to want to go to the ice cream place with you then the focus isn’t getting the phone number. You trade the phone number just because it makes sense to organize the logistics of going to the ice cream place.
The actual goal of the interaction was to go to have ice cream with her not just to get her phone number.
If you want to make sure that your phone numbers don’t flake then you have to ensure that all of your conversation is focused on a meeting with the other person. What’s better than focusing on a meeting with the other person is actually going straight out on a date with them.
One of the reasons I’m such a big fan of an instant date, it’s so much cooler to go up to a girl, have a conversation with her, be talking to her for 20 minutes and then be like, “You know what? I’m actually kind of thirsty right now. I’d love to go grab a coffee. Why don’t you come with me and we’ll go grab one now?”
By doing something like that, you’re ensuring that the interaction is about the two of you continuing to stay together. It’s not just obtaining her phone number or her digits, which really shouldn’t be the goal of your interactions. As long as you’re doing this and making sure to focus on the two of you making a real connection then those phone numbers are never going to flake because she’s going to be excited about staying in touch with you even if it is just to have some awesome ice cream.
If you’re struggling to get a girl to want to date you or your interactions aren’t turning towards attraction and instead they’re just fizzling out and not really going anywhere then you’re going to watch a very special video, the link to it at the end of this post. It’s going to take you through to a very special technique that helps you, while talking to a girl, identify how she wishes to be attracted and picked up.
What’s beautiful about talking to girls, they often give subtle hints at the way they wish you to attract them.
The problem is, most guys don’t spot those hints and so therefore they go about attracting them in completely the wrong way. However by watching this video and using this technique, you’ll be able to understand the exact way you should be going about approaching that specific girl to generate attraction with her.
I can go on and on about this for ever. The best thing for you to do is to click on the link below, watch the video for yourself, and learn that incredibly powerful technique.
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